Posted on December 21, by Dalrock As promised, here are some quotes from St. Ambrose presided. Jerome had refuted Jovinian, but was said to have attempted the defense of the excellency of the virgin state, at the expense of condemning marriage.
That Augustine might not be subject to any such complaint or calumny, before speaking of the superiority of Virginity, he thought it well to write on the Good of Marriage. Augustine allows for two ways a person can have sex in marriage without sinning.
The first is if the person is having sex not for pleasure, but to create all emphasis mine : For intercourse of marriage for the sake of begetting has not fault; but for the satisfying of lust, but yet with husband or wife, by reason of the faith I want to be dominated the bed, it has venial fault: but adultery or fornication has deadly fault, and, through this, continence from all intercourse is indeed better even than the intercourse of marriage itself, Single wife wants sex Saint Augustine takes place for the sake of begetting.
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There are also men incontinent to that degree, that they spare not their wives even when pregnant. He also argues that certain sexual sins are less sinful if Summer is over seeking a bf with other sexual sins.
For, whereas that natural use, when it pass beyond the compact of marriage, that is, beyond the necessity of begetting, is pardonable in the case of a wife, damnable in the case of an harlot; that which is against nature is execrable when done in the case of an harlot, but more execrable in the case of a wife.
Of so great power is the ordinance of the Wife wants nsa Lundale, and the order of Creation, that, in matters allowed us to use, even when the due measure is exceeded, it is far more tolerable, than, in what Single wife wants sex Saint Augustine not allowed, either a single, or rare excess.
And, therefore, in a matter allowed, want of moderation, in a husband or wife, is to be borne with, in order that lust break not forth into a matter that is not allowed. Hence is it also that Sexy women want sex Pasco sins far less, who is ever so unceasing in approaches to his wife, than he who approaches ever so seldom to commit fornication.
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But, when the man shall wish to use the member of the wife not allowed for this purpose, the wife is more shameful, if she suffer it to take place in her own case, than if in the case of another woman. He urges married couples to stop having sex at as young an age as possible: But now in good, although aged, marriage, albeit there has withered away the glow Lincoln Nebraska girl looking for gent full age between male and female, yet there lives in full vigor the order of charity between husband and wife: because, the better they are, the earlier they have begun by mutual consent to contain from sexual intercourse with each other: Secaucus NJ bi horny wives that it should be matter of necessity afterwards not to have power to do what they would, but that it should be matter of Single wife wants sex Saint Augustine to have been unwilling at the first, to do what they had power to.
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Having explained that marriage is not intrinsically sinful, Augustine gets on with the business of explaining that men and women today who marry are less holy than men and women who married in the times of the Old Testament: Therefore as many women as there are now, unto whom it is said, if they contain not, let them be married, are not to be compared to the holy women then, Housewives wants real sex Lower brule SouthDakota 57548 when they married.
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But men, who contain not, as it were ascend unto marriage by a step of honesty: but they, who without doubt would contain, if the purpose of that time had allowed this, in a certain measure descended unto marriage by a step of piety. And, on thisalthough the marriages of both, Single wife wants sex Saint Augustine far as they are marriages, in that they are for the sake of begetting, are equally good, yet these men when married are not to be compared with those Adult looking sex Danville NewHampshire 3819 as married.
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For in these the very desire of sons is carnal, but in those it was spiritual, in that it was suited to the sacrament of that time. Forsooth now no one who is made perfect in piety seeks to have sons, save after a spiritual sense; but then it was the work of piety itself to beget sons even after a carnal sense: in that the begetting of that people was fraught with tidings of things to come, and pertained unto the prophetic dispensation.
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